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Once a young lady who had lived for eight years in Germany and was working in a typical German environment, told me, that German ladies revealed her that they hate Eastern European girls because they are too beautiful and steal their German guys.
It is quite common that you see a couple here where a German looking man is walking with a non German looking lady, appearantly his wife. For the sake of truth, in many cases they are not Eastern Europeans only, in many cases they look more Filipinos.
As someone who arrived from Eastern Europe I have noticed the same. That German ladies, sadly, lose the score against Eastern Europeans. On the other hand they do not seem to worry at all.
But it was very interesting to find out why the difference can be so big. Much bigger than the number of kilometers separating cultures that differ so greately on this particular aspect.
I was reading an article on history and I found an idea which might give rather a rational explanation to this phenomenon. I trust this idea as it is not the first time I find it in historical articles and books.
During World War II when Russian army was leaving their country to fight in foreign fronts, Russian soldiers were instructed to rape German women. To humiliate then personally and make their nation not pure. As we know, it was a time when Hitler was playing big time on his people feelings on the topic of pure race.
When you know you are being after by an enemy, would you do something to attract a bad attention? What if you are raped by the enemy? Feeling completely humiliated, the family and the rest of society not only do not provide you help and care and support to come back to yourself, but reject you as you became their predator and shame.
The culture I am from not getting a man is like having a label “something is wrong with you as a woman”. Therefore Eastern European girls might not have money for the roof and food but will get it to get cosmetics. As being beautiful means getting a man. Which means being accepted into society as a valuable member.
In German culture looking too nice just about three generations back meant being raped by an enemy and excluded from the society. Meaning social death and very serious life lasting trauma. I am sure this, as a question of life or death, was passed from grandmothers to their daughters, from mothers to the granddaughters. Who now make the majority of ladies walking down the street today.
Theres always a reason if you dig deep enough.